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Nov 24

INFJs and Lone Wolf Syndrome

Many INFJ personality types describe themselves as a “lone wolf,” which means their preference is to keep an extremely small circle of friends, and not ask for help unless it’s absolutely necessary. …

Mbti

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INFJs and Lone Wolf Syndrome
INFJs and Lone Wolf Syndrome
Mbti

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Nov 22

Why Do INFJs Always Play the “Medic” in Relationships?

INFJ personality types and INFP personality types are known for being natural healers. Both types possess strong empathy, compassion, and easily attune to the moods and needs of others. Because we have a temperament that is so naturally suited to healing work, we tend to attract people with wounds, and…

Codependency

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Why Do INFJs Always Play the “Medic” in Relationships?
Why Do INFJs Always Play the “Medic” in Relationships?
Codependency

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Nov 20

Why INFJs Struggle with Feeling Selfish

Most INFJ personality types struggle with feeling selfish all the time. It’s most often triggered when we think about expressing a preference, or getting help with meeting an important need. When we realize we have the preference or need, then immediately we have the thought right after that we are…

Narcissistic Abuse

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Why INFJs Struggle with Feeling Selfish
Why INFJs Struggle with Feeling Selfish
Narcissistic Abuse

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Nov 15

My New Book on Intuitive Writing Released Today!

My new book, Writing on the Intuitive Side of the Brain, just released today and I’m so excited about it! I’ve been working on this book for a few years, and it’s based on my most popular classes and video courses about intuitive writing. I wrote this book with INFJ…

Writing

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My New Book on Intuitive Writing Released Today!
My New Book on Intuitive Writing Released Today!
Writing

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Nov 9

Worried About Being Judged?

INFJ personality types tend to struggle with perfectionism, especially INFJ writers. When we struggle with perfectionism, we want to do everything perfectly, not only to satisfy our own inner critic but also to prevent others from judging us negatively. The fear of negative judgment from others can affect our entire…

Perfectionism

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Worried About Being Judged?
Worried About Being Judged?
Perfectionism

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Nov 7

Getting Past Perfectionism

Perfectionism is one of the biggest problems that writers struggle with on a regular basis. And most writers tend to blame themselves for this problem. We often see perfectionism as a character flaw, or a bad habit that we need to conquer. …

Perfectionism

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Getting Past Perfectionism
Getting Past Perfectionism
Perfectionism

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Sep 20

Why INFJs and INFPs Need an Intuitive Creative Process

INFJ personality types and INFP personality types love to try new methods of time management and productivity, and new methods of creativity. However, most of these methods don’t work for intuitive personality types. Instead, they make INFJ personality types and INFP personality types feel worse about themselves. This is because…

Mbti

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Why INFJs and INFPs Need an Intuitive Creative Process
Why INFJs and INFPs Need an Intuitive Creative Process
Mbti

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Sep 18

INFJs and INFPs, Neurodivergence, and Lack of Focus

INFJ personality types and INFP personality types tend to judge themselves harshly for not sticking with projects and not finishing things. They blame themselves for a “lack of focus.” But what most INFJs and INFPs don’t know is that they are not the problem, and what they call a “lack…

Neurodiversity

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INFJs and INFPs, Neurodivergence, and Lack of Focus
INFJs and INFPs, Neurodivergence, and Lack of Focus
Neurodiversity

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Sep 16

Why No One Understands INFJ and INFP Creativity

INFJ personality types and INFP personality types are two of the most highly creative types out of all the MBTI types. However, they are also the two types that suffer from the most self-doubt about their creativity. …

Creativity

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Why No One Understands INFJ and INFP Creativity
Why No One Understands INFJ and INFP Creativity
Creativity

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Sep 2

Announcing the Creative Empath Online Summit!

For the past few months I’ve been organizing an online summit ALL about empaths and empath issues, and I’m so excited to finally announce that it’s going live next week! The Creative Empath Summit is a line-up of 14 amazing speakers, each sharing knowledge on different aspects of life as…

Empath

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Announcing the Creative Empath Online Summit!
Announcing the Creative Empath Online Summit!
Empath

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Lauren Sapala

Lauren Sapala

5.7K Followers

Writer. Writing Coach. Author of The INFJ Writer: Cracking the Creative Genius of the World’s Rarest Type. www.laurensapala.com

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